Barring getting intimately sexual with the woman he loves, there’s nothing any man wants more than to French kiss his woman. French kissing can be intimidating. The mere fact that you’ll literally touch tongues with another person is not something that everyone would want to imagine. That’s why it’s very important that when you French kiss someone, there’s feelings involve- love or at least attraction.
A lot of man won’t admit it, but majority of them are quite fearful of French kissing. Oh, they do want to try it all the time but the fear of doing it incorrectly always shadows them. Now, if you’re a boy who plans on making this French move with your girl, here are some tips that you need to remember:
Proper Hygiene
I can’t stress this enough. No one, absolutely no woman, would want to kiss a guy with bad breath- let alone French kiss him. Remember that you should be clean and fresh smelling/looking too. It goes without saying that you have to take a bath, use deodorant, spray perfume/cologne for man and brush your teeth. If you’ve eaten something spicy or smelly during your date, make sure to pop breath mints before kissing your girl. Moisten your lips too as dry lips can make any kiss awkward.
Make the Move
The important thing to know is that there’s no right or wrong way to French kiss. The contributing factor that will judge the effectiveness of the French kiss is through the technique it’s executed with. Before French kissing your girl, you must position yourself in a way that your partner won’t feel uncomfortable. You can hug her and support her tilted head, if you like. Just don’t embrace her tightly and control her head movement because that would just limit her choices.
Once both of you are already positioned, start kissing her lightly and seductively. Draw her into the kiss. Don’t rush it because that would be rude and disappointing. Gauge her responses. When you feel that she positively responded to your actions, flicker your tongue on her upper (or lower, whichever you prefer) lip. Then let your tongue touch hers. Don’t shove your tongue inside her mouth. Rather, act as if you’re hesitant. This would build anticipation on both parties and will help unfold the French kiss on its own.
Her Reaction Matters
Be a gentleman. If she pushes you away or react negatively to your kiss (French or not), don’t push yourself towards her. Forcing yourself would only make her stay away from you. Besides, that’s just rude and unbecoming.
A lot of man won’t admit it, but majority of them are quite fearful of French kissing. Oh, they do want to try it all the time but the fear of doing it incorrectly always shadows them. Now, if you’re a boy who plans on making this French move with your girl, here are some tips that you need to remember:
Proper Hygiene
I can’t stress this enough. No one, absolutely no woman, would want to kiss a guy with bad breath- let alone French kiss him. Remember that you should be clean and fresh smelling/looking too. It goes without saying that you have to take a bath, use deodorant, spray perfume/cologne for man and brush your teeth. If you’ve eaten something spicy or smelly during your date, make sure to pop breath mints before kissing your girl. Moisten your lips too as dry lips can make any kiss awkward.
Make the Move
The important thing to know is that there’s no right or wrong way to French kiss. The contributing factor that will judge the effectiveness of the French kiss is through the technique it’s executed with. Before French kissing your girl, you must position yourself in a way that your partner won’t feel uncomfortable. You can hug her and support her tilted head, if you like. Just don’t embrace her tightly and control her head movement because that would just limit her choices.
Once both of you are already positioned, start kissing her lightly and seductively. Draw her into the kiss. Don’t rush it because that would be rude and disappointing. Gauge her responses. When you feel that she positively responded to your actions, flicker your tongue on her upper (or lower, whichever you prefer) lip. Then let your tongue touch hers. Don’t shove your tongue inside her mouth. Rather, act as if you’re hesitant. This would build anticipation on both parties and will help unfold the French kiss on its own.
Her Reaction Matters
Be a gentleman. If she pushes you away or react negatively to your kiss (French or not), don’t push yourself towards her. Forcing yourself would only make her stay away from you. Besides, that’s just rude and unbecoming.